June 6, 2018
Kate Made Me Live Colorfully
A woman named Kate died yesterday.
She had a beautiful smile.
She had her own style and owned it.
She built a business that offered something to women that made them feel special.
Her creativity and ability to make you feel special was bigger than her.
I never buy pink but I did when I bought her phone case.
It makes me feel alive.
It makes me feel feminine.
It makes me laugh because I stepped outside of my box.
Kate's ability to MAKE ME FEEL AGAIN made me buy pink.
Kate was a beautiful woman.
A family member.
Her family and friends will forever feel pain and her loss.
They will grieve.
They will suffer.
Their world's are now turned upside down.
I hope as time passes they will find peace.
Peace in their hearts.
Peace in their minds.
Peace in their whole self.
I pray for them they find peace.
I hope Kate is at peace.
Mental illness takes over one's mind.
Just as cancer takes over the body.
I hope people wake up.
Mental illness is a disease.
It is not a choice.
Cancer is not a choice.
People are quietly suffering because we don't treat mental illness as an illness.
The stigma is real.
I hope the media someday changes how they report on suicide.
There are no answers.
A note doesn't give one.
A death cannot be explained in a paragraph.
The story is simple.
A daughter lost a mother.
A husband lost a wife.
Family and friends lost a woman they loved.
All that needs to be said is...
I am so sorry for your loss.